What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is when a person seeks to control or hold power over their partner through a pattern of abusive behavior. It can occur in many forms, including physical violence, verbal abuse, emotional manipulation, restricting a partner’s access to money, pressuring a partner to have sex, stalking and more.

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Domestic violence can be life-threatening and claims the lives of approximately 1,300 Americans each year. It affects 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men.

Domestic violence impacts people of all cultures, religions, ages, educational backgrounds and income levels.

Domestic violence occurs in a cycle (honeymoon stage, tension building, abuse, reconciliation), which makes it very difficult for the victim to identify.

Victims are often isolated from their families, friends and networks of support as the abusive partner becomes increasingly controlling. This isolation makes it difficult to break out of an abusive relationship.


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Sheila

Sheila’s Story

Sheila arrived at the Women Against Abuse Emergency Shelter after waking up in a hospital emergency room.

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La Historia de Dineth

Probablemente tenía 8 o 9 años la primera vez que fuimos a un refugio de Women Against Abuse, a mediados de la década de los ochenta. Era en [el oeste de Philadelphia], porque mi mamá estaba en una situación de violencia doméstica y necesitábamos encontrar un lugar seguro en el que vivir.

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Doreen Davis’ Story

Doreen Davis is a longtime supporter of Women Against Abuse who has used her expertise in traditional labor law to assist WAA for over two decades.

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Megan

Megan's Story

I’ll never forget that moment when the judge asked, “Did he hit you?” I was standing in the courtroom, our 4-month old son sleeping in the baby carrier strapped to my chest. I didn’t know what to say. Everything else – the years of insults, the screaming in my face, the violence, the gaslighting, the drug abuse – was being overlooked. Just because you’ve never been hit, doesn’t mean you aren’t being abused.

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Dineth's Story

I was probably 8 or 9 the first time we went to Women Against Abuse’s shelter in the mid-1980s. It was in [West Philly] and it was because my mom was in a domestic violence situation and we needed to find a safe place to live.

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Justine’s Story

Justine got to know Eric in college, while working part time at a Virginia-based home improvement store. They began casually dating in 1999, eventually marrying in May of 2006. Looking back, her sister, Lauren, can see the red flags.

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Catherine’s Story

When I first met my abuser, I was just 14 years old and he was 20. I thought I was in love, so I ignored the disapproval of my mom and sister.

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Natalie's New Beginning

Entering the Women Against Abuse safe haven – really leaving for good – was the culmination of 10 years of relationship abuse; more arguments, threats and sleepless nights than Natalie* could count. They had children together, shared a life together, depended on each other financially. It wasn’t easy to break things off.

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Jamie's Story

Jamie shared her story at the 2019 iPledge Campaign press conference.

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